Choosing an engagement ring for the one you have chosen can be challenging. Even more challenging than it might seem at first glance. The ring should not only be beautiful and elegant, but also showcase your commitment and affection for your future wife. It expresses your promise, understanding and love for her. That's why we've decided to give you some tips on how to choose the perfect engagement ring for the one. So that with the ring you not only make her happy, but express all your feelings for her and perfectly match her taste.
Find out her preferences
The first and foremost step when choosing an engagement ring for your chosen one is to find out what type of jewellery she likes in general. In any relationship, you have an idea of what a woman likes and dislikes. You know what foods she loves and hates, what songs she likes listening to, and you definitely know at least a little bit about her style as well. Although it may not seem like it, even little things like her favourite colour or the way she dresses will give you a hint when it comes to choosing the right engagement ring. Find out if she prefers yellow or white gold and if she prefers classic or modern designs. If you want to opt for a diamond ring, it can also be helpful to find out what diamond shape she prefers.
The best way to find out is to take a peek into her jewellery box. Is it white gold and silver or yellow gold that prevails? Does she prefer more subtle and simple pieces or is she more likely to show up with lots of coloured stones and bold colours? Include all of this in your selection. Don't hesitate to ask her friends or family members, who may be able to give you useful information.
Think about personality and skin colour
Preferences will indicate the majority, but probably won't point the finger at the perfect engagement ring. So, when choosing, in addition to what she likes, it's a good idea to consider what type of person she is and what her skin colour is. All of us want to present ourselves with jewellery in a certain way, we use jewellery to represent our mood or to communicate our beliefs. An engagement ring is a piece of jewellery that a woman should wear on her finger for the rest of her life. Therefore, it is important to match it with her personality and skin colour so that it sparkles on her finger as beautifully as possible.
Women also translate their personality into their dress style. This gives them the opportunity to show off their unique style. For example, energetic women are suited to more colourful stones, while calmer, more casual women are more comfortable with a simple jewellery style with a clear stone. Skin colour translates into the colour of the jewellery. Each colour of jewellery suits a different skin type, it shines and stands out more. If your future wife has fair skin, she will probably be best suited to yellow gold rings with a diamond, which will have a lower colour grade. If she has dark skin, it will be better to choose a ring in white gold with a diamond of a higher colour grade or literally a coloured gemstone.
Set a budget
An engagement ring can be one of the most important purchases you'll make in your life. For this reason, it's important to have a budget in place. Decide how much you want to invest in a ring and look for a ring in that price range. Remember that the price of an engagement ring depends on many factors, including the metal, stone and design. Your budget can therefore narrow down your choice to certain types of rings, where you can more easily hit her preferences. Budget can also help you in the reverse scenario. If you can't choose between multiple rings and each one seems perfect for your future wife. In that case, focus on which one is a better value for money.
Choose the metal
Once you have set your budget, you also need to choose the metal you want to use for the engagement ring. The most common metals that are used in making engagement rings are gold and silver. Gold rings can be made from different gold alloys, with 14 carat being the most common. These are also the most popular due to their excellent value for money. If you want something extra special for your future wife, you can also opt for 18-carat gold, but you'll be going deeper into your pocket when you do so. Silver rings, on the other hand, are hypoallergenic. Silver is only used in the ring with a very low addition of another metal to ensure its strength. Therefore, they are perfectly suitable for women with more sensitive skin.
Choose the stone
The most popular precious stone for engagement rings is the diamond, however there are plenty of other beautiful stones to consider. Diamonds can vary in size, colour, clarity and cut, so you need to consider these criteria when choosing a diamond ring. Although the general rule of thumb is that the bigger the diamond, the more expensive, sometimes this doesn't have to be the case. With diamonds, we also evaluate their overall clarity and full carat weight, which will determine the price. Therefore, it is a good idea to look at the prices and types of diamonds before choosing the actual ring and consider the most suitable one. If you would prefer a different stone, you can consider a ruby, sapphire or emerald. A beautiful ruby can express love and passion, while a sapphire can represent the peace and harmony, in which your marriage will be held. Clear or coloured zircons are also popular, as they have a better price point compared to a diamond.
Choose the design
An engagement ring can be classic and simple, or it can have various embellishments and pendants. It depends on what style you prefer and what suits your partner. If your partner is more of a classic or casual type, a simpler ring without a lot of embellishments may be better for her. If your partner is more modern and vibrant, you might consider a ring with an unconventional design or a bold coloured stone.
Don't forget to measure the right size
Of course, this important step is not to be overlooked. Choosing the right size ring to fit your loved one's finger can be quite challenging, and even more challenging if you need to keep it a secret from her. Therefore, when choosing an engagement ring, it is important, among other things, to consider whether the ring is suitable for additional adjustments, and be sure to check the exchange policy. For example, we offer gold ring exchange in our e-shop for up to 60 days after purchase, but you should always check what options the retailer offers before you buy.
How to measure a ring without her noticing?
There are several ways to measure the correct ring size. Some methods are very accurate, other ones less so. We offer you some ideas on how to measure a ring and not have to worry about whether you'll get it right by eye.
1. Measuring strips
There are special measuring strips for measuring the size of a ring to ensure the most accurate reading. On our website you will find a simple measuring strip you can easily print and cut out. Wait until your loved one falls asleep and when you are sure her sleep is deep enough, discreetly place the strip on her finger and write down the resulting size.
2. Use her ring
A very safe and reliable way of measuring size is to use the ring your partner wears. You don't have to worry about deviating from the measurement, because you know that this ring will fit her. You can subtly borrow the ring and measure its inner diameter or trace the ring on a piece of paper and measure the size that way. If you take such a ring to a jewellery shop, they can also measure it for you quickly. In this case, however, you have to keep the ring with you longer, which your attentive half may playfully notice. After all, women guard their jewellery. Be sure to check that your partner is wearing this ring on the right finger. A lot of women wear rings on more than one finger, not just the ring finger where the engagement ring belongs.
3. Use a piece of cloth or paper
Another way of measuring is to use a piece of paper or a piece of cloth that you put against her finger while she is sleeping and draw a line where the ends join. Then simply measure the length of the cloth or paper from the start to the line you drew and you will get the size of the ring. However, remember that you have to tighten them properly, otherwise her ring will be loose. On the other hand, if you tighten it too much, the ring won't go through the knuckle on her finger.
4. Ask her discreetly
The next and most accurate way to find out the size of the ring is to ask directly. Of course, not in such a way that you give the secret away. For example, take advantage of your family member's special day, like your sister or mum, who has hands as big as your loved one. Simply tell your partner that you want to buy your sister or your mum a ring and ask her to help you with the choice and size. When your partner tries on the ring, take note of which size fits her best.
5. Compare each other's fingers
Admittedly not very accurate, but a simple way to measure is to compare your and your partner's hands. Turn this simply into a game and find the finger on your hand that most closely resembles her ring finger in size. Then choose the ring on that finger, most often it's a man's pinky finger.
So, choosing the right ring size may not always be easy, but with a little creativity and effort you can certainly do it. Even if you don't manage to get it absolutely right, you can adjust or change the ring afterwards. If you are completely uncertain about the size, choose a ring without stone inlaid shoulders, as these are much more difficult to adjust than a ring with plain shoulders.
In our e-shop you will find a wide range of engagement rings in different styles, shapes and stones. Be inspired by our range and choose the right one. When making the actual choice, remember that it is not just a ring, but a token of love and commitment to your partner. We believe that our advice will make your choice much easier and help you find the right direction to hear your yes.
